Hi! I’m a writer and editor living in Los Angeles. I host the podcast Pulling the Thread, write a weekly newsletter, and am the author of The New York Times bestselling book, On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to be Good. I’m releasing a workbook for On Our Best Behavior in Summer ‘25 called Choosing Wholeness Over Goodness and co-wrote a book with Phil Stutz called True and False Magic (3/25).

ON OUR BEST BEHAVIOR

A groundbreaking exploration of the Seven Deadly Sins—ancient ideas of morality that still control and distort women’s lives today—revealing how trust in our natural instincts can return us to a more balanced, peaceful, and spiritually complete way to live.

After On Our Best Behavior came out, readers wanted to know what to do with this new understanding of the cultural programming that was running their lives. I wrote a workbook, with the incredible coach Courtney Smith, coming Summer ‘25 called Choosing Wholeness over Goodness: A Process for Reclaiming Your Full Sense.

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Coming in March 2025: True and False Magic, a book/workbook hybrid I wrote with Phil Stutz, co-author of The Tools.

I host a weekly podcast with luminaries, spiritual elders, and wise thinkers, who provide context and insight on who we are, why we do what we do, and how we can move forward in this complex time.